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Procrastination only seems like a harmless habit,
Procrastination has many negative consequences
Procrastination can even have LONG lasting costs!

Hey Tracy Brinkmann here from Your Success At Last .com.  We here we are with entry three of your Procrastination series.  Over the next few blog entries I will share with you tips for overcoming procrastination. 

First, thank you for all your positive emails, tweets and feed back about this procrastination series.  I am so glad you are enjoying it and even looking forward to this and the next entry.

One note I want to share with you right now – which is in response to a comment on why haven’t I actually given you a tool to curb the procrastination habit yet.  So far I have only asked you to list some projects you’ve been putting off and would like to accomplish as well as some reasons to get it done and excuses you have been giving your self etc.

The answer is simple and actually very logical.  In all the group and individual coaching that I have done over the years I have found one thing to be absolutely true.   That one thing is the better I get you to understand the very thing you are trying to overcome the much easier it is and more successful you will be when I give you to tips and tools to overcome it.  The work will still be there to be done but the groundwork to get it done will be more solid and you will be more motivated towards its accomplishment.

So I have spent the last two blogs entries getting you to look at your procrastination from different angles, or excuses etcs.  Today we will talk about the real price you pay for your procrastination then next session knowing that you have looked at your procrastination from all these angles – I will start giving you some tools to begin chipping away at it.

So now let’s talk about the Price of Procrastination

Procrastination like ANY bad habit comes along with a cost or a price tag if you will.  Like poor health habits, eating or drinking habits – that cost might be evident right away. But over time the cost builds and builds usually until it’s too late.  That cost can come in many forms.  Here are seven prices you WILL pay for your procrastination.  This is not a comprehensive list but one that should enlighten you – hopefully before it is too late!

  1. GUILT
    Procrastinators are well aware of the guilt factor and feel its price far more then they would like.  They feel guilty for not getting the report done on time, for the flimsy excuses they try and mask that tardiness with and so on.  They feel guilty that they let someone down, or even let themselves down – they feel guilty they can’t break the procrastination cycle.  It’s like quicksand, it slowly sucks you in.  By the time you feel in danger and start to try to escape, you are so deep that you have to work so hard – you often give up.  Resulting in your getting pulled in deeper.
  2. ANXIETY
    If you are able to rush around and get the late report in at the last minute – there will be this firestorm of anxiety churning within you.  A firestorm that has an impact on your body.  Studies have shown that procrastinating college students reported nearly 9 illness symptoms a week, while non-procrastinating student report only ½ that.  Procrastination has REAL effect on you even if you have an excuse your body will know the truth.
  3. RELATIONSHIPS STRESS
    Procrastination effects more then just the procrastinator – if affect their friends and family as well.  Parents procrastinating a child’s needs can turn that child rebellious, defensive and cynical.  This can cause the parent to resort to more aggressive parenting methods furthering the downward spiral.  Friends and spouses can get frustrated with one anther as a result of unmet expectations or unfinished projects and dreams not realized together.  Which lead into…
  4. LOSS OF TRUST
    Trust is eroded with the flimsy and repeated excuses.  The procrastinator might even be blind to the trust fading away – but the word will get around that they can’t be relied on to get things done in time or at all or if does get done the quality of the work will come into question etc.  A bad reputation is VERY difficult to repair and it takes a long to do repair it.
  5. OPPORTUNITIES LOST
    Procrastinator miss out on huge opportunities such as job promotions, completion of wage impacting certification and degrees, meaningful relationships, business opportunities and so much more.  They miss nurturing themselves to their full potential.
  6. SELF CONFIDENCE
    I would content that is impossible to feel good about yourself when you are doling out excuses for late projects and little white lies to cover your procrastination.  Inside the procrastinator knows the truth and feels like a lair and a failure.  So when the next project comes along their already wounded self confidence does not offer much stimulus change thus causing them to sink even deeper in the low self-esteem quicksand I mentioned earlier.  This leads into…
  7. DIGGING THE HOLE DEEPER
    Every time the procrastinator defers, delays or doesn’t even start a project they reinforce the procrastination habit.   A habit is something that you have done so many times that you begin to do it without conscious thought.  So it becomes less and less recognizable as it becomes 2nd nature.

 

If you are still with me on this procrastination series I will assume you are a procrastinator or care for someone who is experiencing one or more of these prices of procrastination.  The remaining blog entries, in this series, are going to focus on overcoming this savage success sucking, self-esteem chipping, relationship ruining, performance bogging and job threatening beast.

Here are Your Success At Last actions to take:

  1. What is your Price of Procrastination?
    Review the negative consequences you wrote down from the first entry in this series – do you want or need to add anything to your list? 
  2. Write down how your life will be different when you no longer have to live with these consequences.
  3. Update your list of positive rewards / consequences you will enjoy when you have completed your project(s).
  4. Have these two lists up where you can see them as you work through the project and this procrastination series.

 

Seriously, take these three actions NOW – and in the next part of this series you will be primed and ready for you first tip to overcome your procrastination!

Until next time – think successfully & take Action!
Tracy
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Procrastination is the source of stress and feelings of low self esteem.
Procrastination makes life much harder then the very task being put off.
Procrastination makes life much harder then it should be!

Hey Tracy Brinkmann here from Your Success At Last .com.  Over the last few video blog entries I have been bringing you tips for overcoming procrastination.  It was been brought to my attention (thank you friends for your feed back) that not everyone can or will watching video blog entries.  So from now on after the video blog entry I will post a text version for your reading pleasure.  To get us started let me catch everyone up with the Procrastination Series I have been posting (which we are almost ½ way through)

I will be brining you 10 tips for overcoming procrastination.  Being guilty of procrastination myself I have come to learn that I am not alone.  25% of the entire population openly admits to being a procrastinator.  Research says that 70% of us have a serious problem with procrastination. 

Coming from the Latin word ‘pro’ meaning forward combined with ‘crastinus’ meaning tomorrow – giving you a the putting forward until tomorrow of a task that should be done today or worse yet the day before yesterday.

Now if you are like me and if you’re still listening to this video blog entry then I am going to assume you are.  Anyway if you are like me – you start your task or project with great intentions, passion and hope for its successful completion.   You set a goal, make a plan get your hopes up heck you might even actually get started but somewhere along the way either with the taking of step one or moving on to step two you can seem take that first or next step.

Many in academia agree that the reasons for procrastination are as varied as the tasks they impact.  One psychologist at the California Institute for Technology says that although it may seem like there is a lack of willpower or that the person is lazy – procrastination is often something far different.  It could be a fear, like a fear of failure or even a fear of success (yes you heard me fear of success).  Tendencies toward perfection can paralyze people into inaction.  Again the list goes on and on.

Net net again we all start of with great intentions but somewhere along the way we falter.  New Years resolutions are a perfect example. Did you know the 70% of all new years’ resolutions are abandoned by February 1st

Well if procrastination is such a success sucking, self-esteem chipping, relationship ruining, performance bogging and job threatening problem why you ANYONE engage in it.  I mean we are all smart enough to be aware of it and avoid it right?  RIGHT?  Yet some how it creeps into our lives time and again, stealing our dreams, robbing our pleasures and putting the weight of guilt on our shoulders.

Well that’s why I’m going to be giving you a series of tips on overcoming procrastination.  Now you may ask – why not give them all to me at once Tracy?  That’s what you have been doing with goal setting, and shopping and all your other topics lately.

Well the reason is, deciding to stop procrastinating along won’t work.  It is not just simply a matter of making a promise to yourself not to procrastinate any more – well not for most of us anyway.  It is a matter of taking the HABIT of procrastinating – in whatever area of your life you are doing it and replacing that bad habit with a better one.

That is not something done in a single day – so I’m spacing this video blog entries out to help you truly try and break that procrastination cycle by giving it to you over time – so you can take it step by step and really deeply drive in the new habit – make it a part of who you are.

Here are Your Success At Last actions to take:

  1. Write down three projects or tasks that you have been putting of, or have had good intentions of started – yet haven’t started or haven’t continued to completion
  2. Write down what excuses you have been giving yourself (or others) to defend your not starting or completing these tasks & projects
  3. Write down how NOT completing these tasks or project have negatively impacted you (physically, financially, emotionally etc)
  4. Pick one of these three projects and put it on a 3×5 index card.  This will be the project that you will focus on during the future video blog posts – the one that we will work together on getting done.
    • Post the index card where you will see it every day, perhaps on your bathroom mirror or on your monitor – so it reminds you to check out the next video blog post.

 

Seriously, take these three actions NOW – and tomorrow we will review excuses and challenge

Until next time – think successfully & take Action!
Tracy
Once of Today’s Top Motivated Coaches

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